How to make your ex want you back quickly
To make your ex want you back after a breakup is not impossible. You may be still in love with your partner after the breakup and you seek ways to restore your relationship. But you should keep in mind that to make your ex want you back quickly you should stop chasing him/her. Instead, you should improve yourself both physically and emotionally. In this article, we are going to share three important steps on how to make your ex want you back quickly. Getting familiar with these steps can help you make your ex love you again so that you can start your relationship over. Spare a few moments to read these steps.
1. Don’t chase your ex
The first thing and perhaps one of the most important things you need to do if you want to make your ex want you back is to not chase them. After the breakup, your ex expects you to chase after them and by doing the opposite, you will not only surprise them but also rekindle their interest in you.
If your ex is used to having you around, when you cut off ties with them, they’re not going to know what hit them!
In this regard, you should start a period of no contact by putting a stop to all phone calls, all texts, Facebook lurking messages, Snapchat, and so forth.
If you can successfully follow this rule for at least 30 days, then your ex will, undoubtedly, miss you and they’re going to wonder where you are and what’s going on with you.
So even if you’re dying to get back with your ex, don’t be the one to show it. Incessantly calling or massaging them will turn them off. Your ex doesn’t like to date someone desperate and clingy!
So, play cool on this point and distance yourself for a while. Spending this time apart also gives your ex the chance to forget about all the negative things in your relationship that caused the breakup in the first place. As such, your ex is more likely to replace those negative feelings with more positive ones.
You may be worried that your ex will forget you during the no-contact period, but they won’t. We promise you that as long you play your cards right, they won’t forget about you. (For more information on this topic see how to make my ex feel attracted to me again.)
2. Get Busy
The second step to make your ex want you back is to appear busy. Even if you have nothing going on in your life, it’s important to make yourself seem busy or yet actually get busy.
In this case, you will show your ex that a lot is going on in your life and that you’re having a great time without them will make them realize that you’re strong, independent, and perfectly content with being on your own.
Even if this isn’t the case and you actually feel like a complete mess without your ex, they must think otherwise.
A great way to tackle this problem is to embrace your newfound single life, spending time hanging with your new friends, taking on new hobbies, or working towards the goals that you’ve put on the back burner up until this point.
So, go out as often as you can, laugh a lot, and live life to the fullest.
Your ex loves it when s/he sees you’re carefree and fun. That is, your partner doesn’t want to be with someone who is constantly down or stressed out.
So, when you do this kind of thing and get busy, your ex sees you’re cheerful and having a blast with other people, they begin to ask themselves why they broke up with you in the first place.
However, you have to keep in mind not to make your ex realize that you’re insincere about being busy or having fun. Remember that your goal here is just to remind your ex that how much fun it is to be around you. (To read more see how to deal with a breakup when you still love them.)
3. Improve Yourself
It also doesn’t hurt to make a point of your appearance. Try to improve yourself by heading to the gym, making healthier eating habits, and rethinking your hairstyle or wardrobe.
Do whatever it takes to feel good about yourself. In fact, when you look good, you feel good. When you feel good, you feel a lot stronger and confident, as well.
While trying to be a strong and confident person both physically and emotionally, note that you’re doing it for yourself, not for your ex. At the same time, your ex is going to get the message that you love yourself and that your world does not revolve around him/her. (To know more see living your best self.)
By doing so, you may even get others interested in you, and when that happens your ex is probably going into a panic mood and realizes that if they’ve given up somebody who is beautiful inside and out, they’re going to run back to you!